“The Healing suit represents principles that free us from traps and suffering, transforming the present situation into one of happy release.”
This page is from Chuck Spezzano’s book The Love Pack meant to “magnify your potential for love, helping you make wiser choices, remove obstacles that hold you back, and to find lasting happiness of love.” I bought it at Borders last week and started reading it. It’s inspirational, especially for someone who is in a relationship and needs an uplift. It just makes one feel better after reading it and it makes you want to make your relationship with your significant other better. This is just for entertainment if you want to read it. I will put an entry about some particular idea from the book.
The Love Pack is also known as the Romance Deck (of cards). Along with the book that interprets these cards, the cards are categorized in groups, called suits. This one is called the Healing Suit, and it includes inspirations for those who want to enhance their relationship or those that suffer from heartbreak and are “healing.” Sounds intriguing, right? The book has no effect on my relationship and I’m not experiencing many problems, but I read a page a day (a card a day) and I thought that if I were in these situations, the book would be a big help. I thought, maybe if I put this out and somene Googled some keywords and stumbled upon this page, and he/she reads it, it could help that person too. And I’m really into inspirational things.
Book and cards
1. Self Love – is one of the most important cards of the deck. It opens us up to love and relationships and helps us to succeed in them. Self love is a state in which we both give to and receive from ourselves. without loving ourselves we don’t feel lovable. Without loving ourselves we don’t feel we deserve love, so we tend to subject ourselves to both pain and sacrifice in our relationships. Self love gives us value, and as a result we give value and love to others. If we love ourselves, we can enjoy ourselves and create happiness and abundance. If we don’t love ourselves, we may either have a penchant for depression or try to hide in casual busyness. Self love allows us to give and receive in a balanced manner while having the courage needed for intimacy and equality. It promotes a harmonious life and a successful outcome to all events. With self love we have faith in ourselves, which makes any challenge that much easier. This card is one of the cornerstones for a happy relationship, a successful life and good times. By holding yourself in high regard, you hold everyone else in high regard. This allows for play and creativity, because when your self doubt and self consciousness are gone, you can place your attention where it belongs — on life, on others, and on your relationship. Then you can relish and luxuriate in the richness of life because you know you deserve it. Self love dissolves the self attack, which is at the root of all our problem. Having this card will transform your mood or open you to all good things.
2. Healing – allows us to grow, learn and improve, correcting our mistakes, which brings us closer to those around us, generating partnership and success. Healing helps our relationships to grow, providing us with a means of transformation to improve any situation — if we are willing to change. When a partner is failing us, we are winning the competition to prove that we are the better person. This gives us revenge on our partner and sets up heartbreak, because we are frightened of intimacy and the next step is in the relationship. Healing alters all that and, nowing that there is a significant change within us, it changes our partners and our world. Healing allows us increasingly to free ourselves of limitations as we progress. It provides a helpful means of transformation, as a gift to our partners and families. Healing allows our relationships to progress through all the stages of partnership, deepening our love as we become more whole. Healing makes every situation better, and paradoxically gives you more breathing space and a wider horizon as you start to become more intimate with those around you. Healing represents the resolution of problems and the next step in your progress. It allows you to share and enjoy the gifts hidden by every problem, and it changes your perception and experience of the situation in such a way that everything is transformed for the better. Healing blesses you and removes your fear, guilty, and self imposed prison.
